"Memory is a kind of mental taxidermy-trying
to hold onto the present after it's become the past,"
is Alan Alda's observation that inspired the title of this beguiling,
humorous autobiography. To say that he grew up in a dysfunctional
family is a gross understatement. The only son of an acclaimed
actor father and a schizophrenic mother, Alda's childhood included
Vaudeville comics and strippers, boarding school bullies, violent
outbursts by his mother and frequent moving. Despite influences
which might have scarred him, he grew into a responsible, happy,
and successful actor, writer, political activist, humanitarian,
husband, and father. His unconventional early education culminated
in a degree from Fordham University, military service, a long,
loving marriage and a traditional family with three happy daughters.
Alda's humility is remarkable
in light of the success he's achieved and the recognition
he's been given. His example of laughing at his mistakes and
finding humor in what others might view as tragedy is what
keeps this book entertaining. Each of his experiences becomes
a lesson from which he learns something about himself or his
world. Rather than seeming preachy, though, his attitude motivates
the listener to adopt a similar response to everyday occurrences.
His honest descriptions of his mother's episodes of madness
and his continued fear of his own genetic susceptibility humanize
him. He becomes not the privileged, elitist TV and Hollywood
star, but a warm, witty, hardworking man who would probably
make a good friend.
This audio book is a perfect road trip book for
the solo traveler or for a group of commuters, friends, or
family members. Alda's humorous observations about life will
trigger conversation among a car full of riders and introspection
and reflection by a single driver. As I listened to him recount
his life's adventures, it seemed as if Hawkeye Pierce were
riding beside me, telling jokes and making droll comments
about the absurdities of life. I highly recommend this audio
book and think it would make an ideal gift for anyone with
access to a CD player and a sense of humor.
,
by Alan Alda
